Wow Bligh, you have clearly demonstrated that you have no clue whatsoever what this debate you hate so much is about. Pro-choice advocates are not asking for late-term abortions or sex-selective abortions. Go ahead and find me even one example of a pro-choice organization advocating for either one.
You are part of the problem with this debate because you are spreading misinformation and skewing the facts. You're championing ignorance just so you can stand on the sidelines and comment how "awful" the debate is and how both sides are really in the wrong--even though you have to put forward totally over the top ideas that no one actually supports like elective late term abortion and sex-selective abortion in order to make the pro-choice side seem just as unreasonable as the pro-life side.
Standing around saying how everyone should just find a middle ground and be nice is a waste of time. This about the rights of living human beings. What about the debate over gay rights? Isn't that debate just as hate-filled and angry? How are you going to attempt trivialize that debate by making the pro-gay marriage crowd sound just as unreasonable as the hateful people trying to deny them their rights? "If only those gay people would calm down and stop being so gay right out in public in everyone's face trying to push their agenda to make everyone else have gay sex too!" would be about the equivalent level of ignorance to what you're saying about the abortion debate.
Please keep your mouth shut if you hate the debate so much and can't even be bothered to spread facts instead of a bunch of bull you just made up on the fly. This isn't a discussion we need to waste time softening and trivializing by pretending there's a middle ground between following the constitution (Roe vs. Wade) and guaranteeing a woman's right to control her body and taking that right away.