Here’s one, from a pro-Israel source, starting as you do in 1860, and counting only “war” casualties other than a final attempt to even the numbers with 9,927 Israelis killed by “Terrorism/Other”:
Even with that, the overall totals are
Jews/Israelis killed 24,969, wounded 36,260
Arabs/Palestinians killed 91,105, wounded 78,038
That’s really just in case someone else is reading along and thinks you have any idea what you’re talking about.